Dear Baby,
Gram is the matriarch of the Leavitt family. She is ninety
years old, and spryer than someone half her age. She has created quite a family
with four children all with children who are now having children (you would
fall in this category). We all remain remarkably close, despite physical
distance and scarcity of the time we spend together, but it is because of our
rock… Gram. I always get sentimental going to her house in North Turner as I
spent much of my childhood and adolescence there playing and growing. She
taught me how to sew, she allowed me and my cousins to create obnoxious
“potions” of God-knows-what, and always encouraged our outrageous imaginative
ideas like trying to fly, starting a roadside apple stand, or raffling off a
quilt to save the rainforest. She braided my hair in the early hours before
school, and let my friends and I stay at her house making costumes until late
hours after school. She made baby quilts for all of her great grandchildren yet
to be born (she expects a great many), and I just cannot wait for you to have
one of these. You will have it your entire life as I still have my own.
Your father and I stopped at Gram and Judy’s on Valentines
Day. I had given Judy advance warning, but she had the brilliant idea to let it
be a surprise for Gram. Judy—who is actually your Great Aunt Judy—is always
game for these sorts of things and I love that about her. When I knocked on the
door, Gram didn’t realize it was us until we were about two feet in front of
her. I very much enjoyed this sneak attack, and we chatted a while before
dropping the second bombshell… YOU!
I think that one threw both Gram and Judy for a loop. They
were surprised, very happy, and we got some solid blinking out of Gram, which
is genetic because Grandpa Steve does the exact same thing when he is trying to
disguise his happy-tears (you will come to discover this if you haven’t already…it’s
a poor disguised effort). At the time, I was mostly trying to keep you a secret,
but I just couldn’t pass up an opportunity to tell your Great Grandmother in
person. With Great Aunt Judy’s help coordinating, it was flawless execution.
It went so well that I decided to do a second sneak attack: your
Great Aunt Joanne (not to be confused with Aunt Joanne Gleason). Hers was a
complete sneak attack as no one in the household even knew your father and I
were in the state. We embarrassed her because we caught her in her pajamas, but
really we weren’t looking any better after coming from camp where I subscribe
to the every-other-day shower plan. Anyway, Joanne may have had one of the best
reactions yet—she squealed like Grandpa Steve, and clapped her hands together
and was just so genuinely excited and happy, with a million follow up questions.
Great Aunt Joanne loves babies and as Grandma Tracy is her baby sister she has
always done a lot for me and your Leavitt uncles. There is nothing better than
telling someone about you who is sincerely as excited as I am (well, almost),
especially after painstaking weeks of near implosion from holding this news
inside.
And that concludes our trip to Maine, in what was likely the
coldest weekend of the winter. Your father and I finished with a Valentines
dinner at the Haraseeket Inn, where he sipped Pinot Noir and I my shirley
temple (my drink of choice during pregnancy). I am beyond excited for you to
meet Gram and your great aunts and uncles. I strongly believe Gram’s got a
solid twenty more years in her, despite her objections to the contrary, and I
suspect the two of you to bond immediately. Plus, I have limitless Gram
stories, so you are sure to know her as well as I do despite the fact that I
lived down the road from her and you live down the country.
Love,
Mom
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